Alleviate your guilt from The Repay Cycle™and Confidently Strengthen
Your Most Important Relationships
while still living your life
Hey, I’m Allison Ly
I empower 2nd Gen Adults just like you to
take care of themselves more with less feeling of guilt
So you CAN continue to care for your loved ones
without sacrificing your needs
(pronounced "LEE”)
IMAGINE YOURSELF
Being able to say “no” confidently.
With less guilt, anger and overwhelm towards your family and
without feeling like you’re being a “bad child”
Helping your family with unshaken confidence while still living your life
Creating space for more happy times with your loved ones
Yes! It’s possible
You can care for yourself and your loved ones without all the guilt and heaviness of feeling stuck in The Repay Cycle™
Start to feel lighter. Less guilty.
Be more like of the version you want to be around your family and loved ones
with the Unshaken Confidence™ Programs
Gain Unshaken Confidence™ to:
Move through The Repay Cycle™ faster and smoother. On your terms
Show up as the best version of yourself with your loved ones
Achieve greater alignment with your values (cultural, family) as a 2nd Gen
Confidently say “no” with less feelings of guilt
Sustain your desire to care for those you love
What will this look like?
You will gain confidence in
Live Group Coaching Calls:
Every other week on Mondays.
(We meet one week, skip the next).
Starting April 8; 10AM PST
April 8
April 22
May 6
May 20
June 3
For these live Zoom calls you will remain anonymous unless you choose to get on a live chat.
Questions can be submitted ahead of time whether you attend or not.
Replays will be available next day if you’re unable to attend.
knowing what your needs are
why it’s been challenging for you and what to do about and
feel confident in saying “no” and living more of your life
We will move towards this together
By recognizing ways you are self sabotaging getting your needs met and what to do about it,
By learning WHY saying “no”, living more of your life, and taking care of yourself brings up so much GUILT as a 2nd Gen
By gaining tools and practicing the skills to help you feel empowered to know how to say “no” with less guilt and live your life with less heaviness.
What will you get in Unshaken Confidence™?
Training Videos:
Videos will be dripped out on weekly basis beginning Monday April 1. (No, this isn’t a April Fool’s Joke!)
Weekly Video Training Topics:
Values clarity
Ways you’re self-sabotaging getting your needs met
Mastering your mindset
Why saying "no" is hard for you
Feelings Revamp
How to say “no” 101
My 3 step Framework in helping you say “no” with more confidence
Videos will be concise to help you save time and
to start living more of the life you want.
Start enjoying more of your relationships, today!
Pick which track is best for you:
Unshaken Confidence™:
The Course
$247
What's Included:
7 Modules of Concise Videos Trainings & Worksheets
Training specific to 2nd gens &
the impacts of The Repay Cycle™Practice saying what you need, saying “no”,
& offer alternativesWorksheets to help you discover options
that work for you
Track 1
Unshaken Confidence™ Accelerator & Group Coaching
$987
What’s Included:
everything from the Unshaken Confidence Course PLUS
5 Live 60- Minute Group Coaching Calls
Live Group Coaching Calls Will Help:
- Clarify, Practice and Master skills
- Work through any challenges (e.g. mindset, practical, brainstorming)
Track 2
MEET YOUR COACH
Hey! I’m Allison Ly
After helping 2nd Gens get unstuck from The Repay Cycle™ in private practice for over 5 years as a LCSW
I realized that this solution needed to be made accessible to MORE people.
I created The Unshaken Confidence Program
to help 2nd Gens like you live more of your life,
WHILE still taking care of the ones you love
This guilt that you’re feeling, I understand
I’ve been there.
As a 2nd Gen myself, I have overcome many challenges that are so unique to an adult child with immigrant parents.
I empower you with information, knowledge and skills
to help you move through the guilt,
and The Repay Cycle™ quicker,
So you can start living more of your life sooner
With my 3 step framework, you’ll be able to
care for your parents while still being able to live your life
So then, you can enjoy more of your time with your loved ones
With all the challenges that come with balancing two worlds, and two different expectations - learning to set navigate your needs with your family’s need is SO difficult, especially as a second generation adult.
You’ve been trying to do it all.
On your own.
At the expense of yourself.
You’ve read articles, books.
But it’s still a challenge.
And you don’t need to do it alone anymore.
I will help you understand your needs better, and share them with others confidently to move you towards the relationships you never thought would be possible.